11. That’s what friends are for.
We all know the Beatles’ lyrics “I get by with a little help from my friends,” but they also sang “I get high with a little help from my friends,” words that couldn’t ring truer. Positive and deep friendships help us feel more confident, less stressed and merrier, so make the effort to keep the ones that make you feel great, calm and cheery.
However, we’re not talking about texting back and forth or the number of likes you get on Facebook. According to research from the University of Michigan, the more the 82 young adult participants used Facebook, the more their life satisfaction levels declined. Contrarily, the two-week study showed direct interactions with others, whether a phone call or face-to-face, helped people feel better over time. Another study from the University of North Carolina discovered touch releases feel-good chemicals like serotonin and reduces blood pressure and heart rate, contributing to a more relaxed outlook. So try switching off that smartphone, stepping away from the desktop and calling a friend to arrange a cathartic chat (and giggle) over a coffee.